Struggles

I know that i had said to my SMKSP friends when i was on my way to PASUM, "struggle if u need to"
However, i would love to mend the sentence..
"Struggle if you need to do so, but don't over do yourself.. In new places, it is normal to sense the awkwardness of the new environment and acquaintances.. But it is normal to seek for help and support.. Humans are not created to be alone.. Even the chromosomes that made up men are in pair... "

After 2 weeks straight being alone in college (luckily, Amalina was there), i realised that there is a limit for a human being to struggle.. Seriously, struggling hurts, but that is what you need to pay in order to get the ticket of success. Sometimes when you are alone, you will feel the hopelessness and the stress, seeing there are a lot that you need to cover so that you are truly prepared to face something important, an examination for instance..
This is where a support is needed.. You don't have to be alone, struggling... Believe me when i said that, when we are with someone, the happiness are doubled, and the sorrows are halved.. 

Don't be too negative-minded when it comes to yourself, believe in yourself.. As a student, the burden is yours to bear, but you need to realise that there is no regulation that states that the burden must be bear alone.. You can share the burden.. Look for someone that you can trust, and share your problems.. When we are sharing our problems with someone, we usually expect a solution.. However, the fact is, the gist of sharing our problem is the relief that we will feel.. Sharing our problems do not make us bad or useless person, in fact, it shows that we are human, with flaws and limit..

In a nutshell, please struggle to be the best, but don't overdo yourself.. It is okay to not to be perfect.. Just do your best without breaking yourself.. Last but not least, take care of your relationships with humans and ALLAH.. When you are in need He is the one you should seek help from.. Study hard, pray hard..

Till Then,
Hold on to your faith..
Live Brave Be Bold..